California Sweethearts to Luxury Wedding at Chateau Gassies

Published 14 November 2024

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Chateau Nouvelle-Aquitaine Autumn (2024)

California Sweethearts to Luxury Wedding at Chateau Gassies in Bordeaux

Kaitlyn Murray and Eric Miller traced a path from a USC bar to a Napa proposal, then crossed the Atlantic for a summer gathering near Bordeaux. Château Gassies, an 18th century estate minutes from the Bordeaux train station, offered historic stone, timbered ceilings, chandeliers, and lawns with city views. In the South of France light, over 100 guests arrived to soft blues and whites across the garden, heard chairs settle on gravel, and watched the processional form. This unique location, 5 mn away from Bordeaux, overlooking the city and the Garonne river terraces guided movement from arrival to seating while staff adjusted shade and water service. The day opened with clear skies, light breeze, and steady anticipation.

Ceremony Music, Dana Harel Lace, and Garden Blues Against Stone

The ceremony read personal and measured. A string trio played Can’t Help Falling in Love as Kaitlyn walked the aisle in a Dana Harel gown with lace and scalloped detail that suited the stone surrounds. Eric’s father officiated, and the couple exchanged vows while greenery framed the chairs and pale blue accents threaded through florals and ribbons. Guests, some on long-haul flights, listened as cicadas hummed and cameras clicked. Applause rose, petals moved in the breeze, and portraits began along the paths. This picture-perfect setting for a summer celebration appeared in every frame, its architecture setting pace as the group shifted from lawn to terrace for cocktails.

Inside the Château: Six Cocktails, Candlelight, and Five Generations

Evening service unfolded within the château’s walls where exposed beams, crystal chandeliers, and antique mirrors set the scene. Long tables in white linens held hundreds of candles, personalized macarons marked each place, and six signature cocktails moved from trays to conversation. Moments of note included the bride’s grandmother making her first international trip and a family cake knife used across five marriages. Flow and finish came together under the experienced wedding planner Samkoma World, while one of europe’s best wedding photographers Still Miracle recorded toasts, textures, and late-night dancing. As doors opened to night air, guests stepped outside, heard music drift across the courtyard, and returned for a final round.

Special Elements:

  • Generations Gathered: The first international journey of the bride’s grandmother
  • Family Traditions: A century-old cake knife passing through five generations
  • Personal Touches: Six signature cocktails reflecting the couple’s journey
  • Musical Magic: String trio performance of “Can’t Help Falling in Love”

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Getting Ready

The Ceremony

The Bridal Party

The Bride and Groom

The Reception

The Design & Details

The Venue

The After Party

Getting Ready

Bride in ivory mermaid gown with beaded lace bodice before large mirror, sleek updo, gazing downward with natural smile
Bride and bridesmaid in powder blue pyjamas getting ready at Chateau Gassies photographed by S Miracle

Ceremony

Bride and groom recessional at neoclassical chateau, bridesmaids in pale blue, groomsmen in black tuxedos
Ceremony in classical stone courtyard with bridesmaids in light blue, groomsmen in dark suits and white floral aisle
Bride and groom exchange rings before stone mansion, bridesmaid in lavender watches and white floral urns frame altar
Outdoor ceremony in courtyard of classical manor house with bride and groom at centre

Cocktail Hour

Black-and-white wide shot of guests mingling during cocktail hour in a formal courtyard with cypress trees

Reception

Couple sharing their first dance at the wedding reception
Bride and groom first dance in ballroom with crystal chandeliers, bride's lace train sweeping across parquet floor
Indoor ballroom reception with crystal chandeliers, ivory linens, and white floral centerpieces
Formal reception table with blue patterned napkins, silver candlesticks, and white floral centerpieces

Couple Portraits

Bride and groom walking together through the venue grounds
Bride and groom kissing on gravel path beside stone mansion with lavender and cypress trees
Bride and groom walking hand-in-hand along illuminated stone colonnade pathway at night after reception
Bride and groom kissing in a classical chateau courtyard lined with white flowering plants

Bridal Portraits

Black and white bridal portrait in garden wearing lace robe with flowing train
Bride in lace halter gown facing tiered flower vial installation with white roses and hydrangeas in classical interior

Design and Details

Reception tables set with ivory linens, gold flatware, cream candles, and low white and green floral centerpieces
Formal table setting with blue striped napkins, gold candlesticks, white flowers and crystal glassware on white linen
Three-tiered ivory buttercream wedding cake on glass stand with geometric backdrop
Long reception table with white hydrangea floral runner and candles in a classical stone ballroom with arched window

Bridal Party

Bridal party portrait with bridesmaids in periwinkle dresses and groomsmen in black tuxedos in arched venue
Bridal party posed in two lines at stone mansion courtyard with bridesmaids in blue dresses and groomsmen in black tuxedos
Bridal party portrait with bridesmaids in periwinkle gowns and groomsmen in black tuxedos before stone mansion
Full bridal party portrait in stone hall with groomsmen in black tuxedos and bridesmaids in periwinkle dresses

Flat Lays

Wedding flat lay with rings
Wedding stationery flat lay with embossed invitation, gold ring box, vintage binoculars, and calligraphy
Bridal flat lay with toile plate, diamond ring in box, gold cufflinks, Jo Malone cologne, and vintage perfume
Wedding stationery flat lay with calligraphy invitation, château illustration, ring in brass box, and vintage opera binoculars

Venue

Aerial view of a classical chateau estate with formal gardens and ceremony seating arranged in the courtyard
Aerial view of formal garden ceremony setup with white Chiavari chairs arranged symmetrically on lawn with boxwood borders
Cream stone chateau under blue sky with cypress trees, garden water feature and guests on formal grounds
Aerial view of a ceremony setup with white chairs and floral arch in formal French chateau gardens

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The Venue

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