Pastel Wedding at Chateau de Courtomer | Melanie Anne Photography

Published 11 March 2024

At a Glance

Chateau Normandie Spring (2024)

A Pastel Weekend at Château de Courtomer in Normandy

Location: Courtomer • NormandyNorth of France

In the soft countryside of Normandy, Summer Nicole and Michael brought family and friends together for a spring wedding that unfolded with focus and ease. The morning opened to clipped lawns and misted light as guests arrived along quiet lanes leading to Château de Courtomer, an 18th-century wedding chateau in Normandy surrounded by farmland and formal gardens. The chateau which can accommodate up to 15 guests in its luxurious bedrooms offered calm and continuity each space at the château serving a clear purpose from portraits to ceremony to dinner. Their first look took place beside a centuries-old tree, where the air felt cool and still, a moment of pause before the day began in full.

Pastel Florals, Pronovias Organza, and a Ceremony in Bloom

The design drew directly from the season, resting on lavender, blush, peach, and ivory to echo the tones of nearby fields. Summer wore a Pronovias gown in layered organza, its floral appliqués mirrored by her cathedral-length veil that moved lightly across the grass. The ceremony unfolded beneath a rounded arbor framed with meadow-style blooms, their soft edges blending naturally into the stone surroundings. Guests followed the couple from the garden to the salons, where reception tables carried compote arrangements, brass candlesticks, and tapered blush and lavender candles. As mist cleared, Château de Courtomer’s facade glowed, roses climbing along the windows in the shifting light.

Oysters, Candlelight, and a Celebration in Motion

The evening followed a rhythm shaped by shared tastes and thoughtful planning. A raw bar of oysters and shrimp led cocktail hour, followed by generous small plates - duck empanadas, pork belly bao, lamb lollipops, bacon-wrapped scallops, and brie tartlets. Dinner continued the tone of quiet abundance with escargot in mushroom caps, prawns, filet mignon, and truffled whipped potatoes. Coffee accompanied cake and a macaron tower as conversation lifted across the candlelit table. The day came together through destination wedding planner Summer Nicole, one of the North of France’s most detail-focused wedding planners, and was photographed by Melanie Anne, among the most elegant destination wedding photographers in Normandy. Together, they crafted a day that felt grounded, graceful, and genuinely celebratory from first look to final toast.

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Getting Ready

Bride seated on bed adjusting embroidered floral heels, wearing off-the-shoulder lace gown in chateau bedroom
A getting-ready portrait of a bride seated on a carved wooden French-style chair in a bright, classically furnished room with warm white walls, parquet flooring, and grey-purple curtains framing a window. She is wearing an off-the-shoulder white ball gown with a lace appliqué bodice and a full organza skirt, and is in the process of fastening a pale blue satin garter on her thigh. Her footwear consists of embellished heels with pale blue ankle straps and decorative bow detailing, referencing the 'something blue' tradition. She has long blonde wavy hair worn loose and is smiling directly at the camera. The room features a grey-painted vintage dresser and a table lamp, suggesting a château or manor house bridal suite setting. The image is a medium portrait shot taken in soft natural window light with a warm, airy tone.

Ceremony

First kiss under circular floral arch with blush roses and lavender delphinium on garden lawn
Elevated view of bride walking across lawn toward circular white and lavender floral arch with guests
Ground-level ceremony aisle arrangement with blush lisianthus, purple allium, foxglove, and trailing greenery on lawn
Garden-style aisle flowers of blush roses, lilac delphiniums, and alliums with brown bistro chairs on lawn

Cocktail Hour

Close-up detail shot of a catering or cocktail hour food display featuring freshly shucked oysters arranged on crushed ice in a round silver metal tray. Approximately seven to eight open oyster half-shells are visible, showing pale cream and grey-toned flesh. In the lower left corner, orange-pink cooked shrimp are partially visible, suggesting a seafood platter presentation. A small wooden block or stand is partially visible in the upper left background. The setting appears to be indoors against a dark surface, with natural or ambient soft lighting. The composition is a tight overhead angle focusing on the food detail.

Reception

Long outdoor reception table with cascading blush roses, peach garden roses, lilac delphiniums, and pink taper candles
Black-and-white image of a bride and groom sharing a kiss during the cake cutting moment inside a formal reception room. The bride wears a strapless fitted gown with a full skirt and has long wavy hair; the groom is dressed in a dark tuxedo with a boutonniere and holds a plate with a slice of cake. The three-tiered wedding cake sits on a small dark wood side table and is surrounded by loose floral arrangements featuring peonies, ranunculus, and delicate branching blooms. The room features floor-to-ceiling floral-print curtains with tassel tiebacks, wood-paneled walls, a patterned area rug, and a large arched window behind the couple that floods the scene with light. A striped upholstered armchair and an ornate framed mirror are visible to the left, suggesting a classic French château interior. The composition is a medium-wide portrait shot centered on the couple with the architectural window framing them from behind.
A champagne toast during an outdoor wedding reception, with a guest in the foreground raising a flute of rosé champagne toward the camera. The table is dressed in a white linen and features low floral centerpieces in a soft palette of blush, peach, lavender, and white — including tulips and open garden roses — alongside tall lavender taper candles and pink votive candles. White plates, silver cutlery, and printed menus are visible at each place setting. In the background, a woman in a blush or light grey dress stands holding a microphone, appearing to give a speech, while other guests in formal black tie attire raise their glasses. The setting is an outdoor courtyard in front of a classical stone building with tall windows. The shot is taken from a seated guest's perspective, with shallow depth of field keeping the foreground glass sharp and the background softly blurred.
An outdoor wedding reception table setup photographed in a wide shot on a gravel surface, with an open lawn and mature trees in the background. The long rectangular table is dressed in a light grey linen and lined on one visible side with approximately ten warm-toned wooden cross-back chairs. The tablescape features low floral arrangements in blush pink, lavender, and white tones with loose, garden-style blooms, paired with tall dusty pink taper candles, clear glassware, and grey or sage-toned place settings. Pink napkins are folded at each place setting, contributing to a soft, muted pastel palette. The overall styling is classic French countryside with a romantic, airy aesthetic.

Couple Portraits

Groom kissing bride on cheek in front of limestone chateau with cathedral train spread on lawn
Bride and groom small in frame at base of giant sequoia tree with cathedral veil on lawn
Couple walking toward chateau with reception tables bride in white gown with cathedral veil and bouquet
Close-up of couple kissing with oversized pastel bouquet of sweet peas, roses, and clematis

Bridal Portraits

Bride holding pastel garden bouquet of sweet peas roses and clematis with flowing veil outdoors
Bride in off-shoulder ballgown with cathedral train before circular arch of blush roses and lavender blooms
Bride with cathedral lace veil spread across geometric tile floor gazing through arched French doors in chateau
A bridal portrait taken outdoors on the lawn of a large French château, with the stone classical-style building visible in the background. The bride, a blonde woman with loose waves, is turned slightly away from the camera and glancing back over her shoulder with a smile, holding a loose, garden-style bouquet of white, blush pink, lavender, and lilac blooms including sweet peas and ranunculus. She wears an off-the-shoulder white ball gown with a fitted lace bodice and a full skirt, paired with a long cathedral-length veil that fans out behind her. In the background, rows of white ceremony chairs are arranged on the château forecourt. The shot is a three-quarter portrait with soft, even natural light.

Design and Details

Signature cocktail sign in ornate gold frame surrounded by blush and lavender flowers with canape platter
Place setting with gold-rimmed charger botanical menu card and lush ivory rose blush and mauve garden-style centerpiece
Welcome tray with Wedding Post newspaper, rose champagne, macarons, and lavender blooms
Place setting with gold-rimmed china and blush rose, lavender, and cream tulip centerpiece

Flat Lays

Wedding stationery flat lay with calligraphy invitation, painted landscape envelope liner, and mauve clematis bloom
Stationery flat lay with watercolor venue map diamond rings in grey velvet box gold earrings and white tulip on marble
Stationery flat lay with calligraphy invitation wax seal stamp watercolor chateau card and dusty mauve velvet ring box
Wedding stationery flat lay with watercolor France map, calligraphy place cards, and velvet ring box

First Look

Bride approaches groom across wide lawn with cathedral veil trailing and pastel bouquet at chateau estate

Venue

Aerial view of outdoor ceremony setup with floral arch and white chairs on manicured lawn between tall trees
Chateau salon with boiserie paneling marble fireplace sage velvet armchairs and crystal chandelier
Wide exterior shot of a French classical château with warm sandstone façade, slate mansard roofs, and a central pediment featuring decorative carved relief work above pilastered columns. The building spans multiple wings across the frame. To the right of the main entrance, rows of wooden chairs are arranged in a ceremony setup on a gravel courtyard, with what appears to be a white-clothed cocktail or welcome table nearby, indicating the space is dressed for a wedding ceremony outdoors. Trimmed hedgerows and a stone-edged reflecting pool or parterre border the foreground. The overall style of the event setup visible is classic and understated, with natural wood chairs against the formal French architecture. Potential venue feature image.

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